I am glad that you are here. Even though I consider you a friend, I’d like to get to know you better. So I ask you some questions. “Do you believe that bondage allows for a more true expression of the self?” You explain that, for you, bondage creates a space where you feel able to express feelings that might otherwise be difficult, unacceptable, problematic, or too just vulnerable. The bondage creates a safe space to roam where you…